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“And I want what happened to me to be meaningful in that. It makes — I make a difference in stopping, or changing, or helping, or influencing, or impacting this culture of violence against women.”

I think the word survivor means adapting and overcoming something that has taken you down. I knew it wasn't going to kick my ass. It wasn't going to take me down and I was determined to come out on top of it, not just okay, but better. And that is what being a survivor means to me.

I'm a fighter, I'm a strong woman

I trusted him completely and felt safe with him. So when he turned on me and assaulted me,it shook me so hard because I trusted him like that. It was simply one time that it happened and that destroyed me emotionally.

I speak as someone who is inspired by my daughter. When I speak about this experience, I speak as someone who wants to be brave and stand up for others.

Tags: Depression, PTSD, Therapy, Support groups, Law enforcement, Family court, Narcissism

Content warnings: Physical violence, Suicidal ideation